One of the best things you can do for yourself is to learn to get over it. There will be plenty of thing that will happen that you will benefit from if you just get over them. Hurt, disappointment, and failure are a few examples of things you will have to learn to get over. In order to keep making forward progress it is imperative that you get over these things. At some point in life someone will do you wrong or something will not go your way. Just get over it, accept it for what it is, and keep moving toward your goal. You should definitely learn from your past but do not dwell in it where you become stagnant and stop growing and becoming the person that you know you can be. Decide today that anything that might be holding you back you will get over it. I will see you on the other side where success awaits you.